The Attraction of Bad Guys

As I was browsing Innit, I came across this interesting article by Robin about the 3 kinds of men. Ironically this post entry was written by a guy too. I guess a guy knows another guy better. Here an except from his entry.

现在的年轻人真不把“承诺” 当一会事。
在感情热烈时，承诺的花言巧语， 在分手时全部都被抛到九霄云外。
什么“天长日久”， 什么“你是唯一”， 都是骗人的。
但，人就是喜欢听这些东西。
这些话， 谁不会说？
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在我看，男人分三种。
1) 花言巧语，风流倜当。在得到所要的东西之前，无所不做。- 简称： 坏男人
2) 信守承诺，承诺某件事前会三思而后行。- 简称： 好男人
3) 胆小如鼠。不敢接近女人。在感情方面属于被动。 - 简称： 不是男人
很遗憾，男人不坏，女人不爱。 最受欢迎的还是第一种男人。
第二种男人呢， 常常被视为不浪漫，没情调。通常只能扮演“好朋友”的角色。 就应为他不够“坏”。

第三种“男人”就不用说了。
在这世界里，大部分的男人属于第二种。 这些人呢，不是不会花言巧语， 而是他们了解”承诺” 的重要性。这些男人，一旦向你承诺了某件事，就一定会尽全力去守它。
擦亮眼睛看看你所谓的男朋友究竟是哪种男人吧。

你。。。又 属于那一种男人呢？

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People nowadays really undermine importances of promises.
When in a break up, promises made to stay together forever, promises of "You are my one and only" are all trashed and forgotten.
Sadly enough, these promises are what people love to hear during a relationship.
Who doesn’t know flattery?
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In my opinion, males are split into three different categories in this world.
1) Flirtatious. Flattery is second nature. Will do anything in the process of getting what he wants. - Bad guys
2) Keeps his promises. Will think twice before promising anything. - Good guys
3) Timid. Don’t dare to go near the opposite sex. Passive. - Not considered a man.

Sad to say, the bad guys always get the girls. Therefore, the first kind of guys are most popular among the opposite sex.

The second kind of guys are often seen as unromantic. They often plays the role of a "good friend" to the girls they like, just because they ain’t "bad" enough.

I suppose the third kind doesn’t need any explanations.

Most of the guys belongs to the second category. It isn’t that these guys doesn’t know flattery, but rather, they know the importance of promises. Rest assure that if this kind of guy promises you something, he will do his utmost best to fulfill it.

Girls, open your eyes wide and see, what kind of guys does your "beloved boyfriend" really belong to. And you, which category do you belong to?

I copied the contents and forwarded to my colleagues. Guys and gals. One of the gals discussed with me about the bad guy and the good guy. Of cos the timid guy is totally hopeless. Nothing to talk about.

What Robin wrote was true. Both of us agree that the girls [and guys] do fall for the bad guys. Maybe cos they are being more cheeky, how to spice things up, daring and add excitement to our routine lifestyle. Those goody guys can be bored at times. We feel that the bad guys are good for dating, when we need to spicy things up. Looking for new adventurous on each new dates and get the thrills of it. While good guys are good in marriage. Because they provide the security and stability for the family.

Now the ironic is, if the chances of good guy to get a good date is very minimal compared to the bad guys, then how the good guys will end up in the marriage stage? The good guys don't even has the gals to start with for the dating. And so my female colleague came out with a brilliant idea. The bad guys will need to change to good guys after marriage. I was going to laugh out hard!! It's always the guys that will expect the gals to change after marriage and the guys want to remain the same. I think it's almost 'mission impossible' for guys to change.

But then the bad guys also do the attentions of the gals [and guys] and I agree on that point. It because they always put their partner into Cloud 9.